Have you ever tried to comfort your child—only to be met with “Leave me alone,” eye rolls, sarcasm, or shutting down? In this episode, Jessie Evans and Emily Coomer, LPC unpack what’s really happening beneath those reactions and how parents can respond in ways that strengthen trust, emotional safety, and secure attachment.
What you’ll learn (bullets)
- Why “rejection” behaviors are often communication
- How overwhelm and fear of closeness can show up as anger or withdrawal
- Why toddlers and teens often wrestle with autonomy vs. connection
- The importance of being the “regulated brain in the room”
- How to use repair after conflict to build long-term security
- Simple phrases to help you pause, reflect, and co-regulate
Featured Guest
Emily Coomer, LPC is a counselor at Steadfast Christian Counseling who loves working with kids and supporting parents with practical, real-life tools. Emily helps families move from reactive cycles to calmer connection—without losing boundaries or authority.
Want support navigating big emotions, shutdowns, or power struggles at home? We’re here to help.
Book a free consultation: https://sccandcic.janeapp.com
Visit: www.steadfastchristiancounseling.com
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